September 11
These suggestions and information for educators may be interesting to parents:
 
Remembering 9/11  -- Communities across the U.S. plan gatherings and memorial services for anniversary of 9/11 attacks    http://www2.scholastic.com/browse/article.jsp?id=3754860
 
Thoughts on 9/11 by Joan Bauer -- author of many wonderful books for adolescents: 
 
And here are some facebook comments from teachers (The only editing error I corrected was the spelling of "remembrance."):
 Catherine Kelly:   The innocents whose lives are lost due to radicals of any kind are  those who need to be remembered by our actions of today and in the  future. There are lives here at home and across the world who have been  affected and need to be remembered. 9/11 remembrances can open the door  to others, there is no need for hatred of any kind to anyone. 
Terresa Cornelius:  I  have had my current 5th grade class twice before:  in kindergarten and  in grade 3.  As a result, I know them well. A portion are Muslim;   others are refugees or immigrants from 4 different continents.  Many  different opinions among their ...families!  The anniversary of 9/11 gave us opportunity to say that tragedy can  happen to any and all countries.  We choose to show true greatness  through our personal responses to it. Since people of every imaginable  type died that day, we can honor them by respecting  & showing  compassion to people, period, not pigeon-holing a person because of  their color, religion, etc.  In my class, many families fled their  countries precisely because of oppression and war.  For them, the give  of education and a chance to help steer their own course is a daily  lesson.